Agency can be trained. A person can become better at setting a goal and achieving it by deliberately practicing and achieving smaller goals. Competence creates confidence, in turn creating a self-reinforcing loop of achievement and ever-growing goals.
Practice should be gradual and masterful, i.e., work slowly through exercises that are interesting and have a solid grasp before moving onto a more challenging one.
These are roughly grouped by difficulty—it's difficult to keep track of them all relative to one another. Some tasks have easy, medium, or hard ways to do them, so I either chose the average or most beneficial or included the same thing multiple times with a slightly different description. And yes, the easy ones do matter.
A lot of these come across as "bucket list-y", but that's effectively the point: these are goals, achievements, experiences, etc that you can do if you want to. They are entirely optional yet entirely achievable with the proper ingredients of hard work, consistency, and commitment.
Lose weight (if overweight) or gain weight (if underweight)
Create and run a YouTube channel
Apply for a game show (Survivor, Jeopardy!)
Buy a house without a realtor
Acquire an automatic rifle
Switch careers (within the same city)
Acquire a hectare of land in another city/state/country/continent
Attend Burning Man (Vibe Camp for those readers)
Make friends online and meet them in person
Hard
Run for office (local/regional/national)
Build and deploy an algorithmic trading strategy
Complete a DIY home renovation
Get access to something exclusive with a fake pass
Learn a language
Organize a conference
Shoot a rocket-propelled grenade (RPG)
Make friends with someone in another country and convince them to let me sleep at their house within 24 hours of meeting them
Start a company
Get a friend out of a foreign jail/prison
Climb K2
Quotes
While I think motivational quotes are often bullshit, there are some that have power behind them, and when coupled with the right person and right mindset, provide an epiphany of-sorts that anything can be done.
Literally every person ever in Silicon Valley:
You can just do things
Sam Altman:
you can grind to help secure our collective future or you can write substacks about why we are going to fail